WHY DIVORCE RATES HAVE INCREASED

 

Marriage is a good thing designed by the creator of the universe. Its meant for many purpose procreation being one of them. when partners fall in love in their initial days. Love is usually so intense. None of the partner come to think that a time would come when they don’t want to see each other face. During the wedding day they say their vows and in many cases these lover birds do actually mean them; “for better or for worse till death do us apart”

After some time of living together and coming to know the true colors of each a separation develops and if this partners don’t care enough to solve it then a divorce follows.

In this 21st century the rates of these divorces have increased. Its causing a lot of pain in this marriages and to the children if the family happen to have them.

There are many factors leading to these.

Infidelity is the major reason. No human being in this world enjoys or dream of betray. It’s everyone worst nightmare especially when its coming from the most important person in your life. During the beginnings these two love birds give each other promises and so a bond of trust is created between the two. When one partner happen to break one of these promises like to never be unfaithful, then this bond of trust is broken and in many cases its very hard to restore it. There a divorce happens.

Change of behaviors and habits

When most partners meet everyone tries hard to look and maintain the very best reputation to win each other. Its truth no one would like it to live with a person with a bad character. This change of habits that can lead to a divorce is usually a change from good or better habits to bad or evil habits. These bad habits can include drugs abuse, one of the partner of both developing hot temper, some more shameful habits like prn watching and msturbtion which causes a tremble addiction.

When drug abuse enter in a relationships its very obvious its can’t cause any positive influence but only a negative one. Drugs cost money, energy and a lot of other important things that are supposed to be used to build the relationships. And due to drug abuse the attention shift and a gap is left. This gap can only grow bigger and bigger every day and if the habit doesn’t stop then and end to the relationship will occur.

Bad influence from friends or even family members

When problems arise in a union of two people they are supposed to do their best and solve the problem by them or find a professional for example like a therapist or a trusted man of God to help them. When this is not the case and this partner’s start sharing their problems with everyone they think they are their friends then a bigger problem will be created. When its become too big to be solved then it can only lead to a separation.